Anonymous asked:

So I'm an aries female dealing with a pieces male and we've been off and on for four years. Recently we've been on again and We've been spending time and he's been so cute and romantic but then I left on vacation for five days and couldn't talk to him cause I was overseas and now he's being really stand offish he hasn't asked to see me and when I ask he says yeah and never follows through can you please help me! Idk if I should move on or keep trying.

becuase i don’t really know the depth of the situation, i want you to understand that any advice i give you is completely based on my own “feeling” of what you’ve told me and nothing else.

firstly, because you guys have been on and off for so long, this might be one of those “off” periods. i don’t know how long you’ve been back from holiday, so i can’t judge whether or not him not having come to see you is something to really worry about. however, i will say that you shouldn’t wait around for someone who isn’t making any effort. you were only gone for five days, but he should be missing you and wanting to see you instantly.

i suppose that you want to keep trying because you’ve been seeing him for so long and by now his presence in your life must be quite comforting. i imagine that after all these years there is that hope that it will work out in the end…but it really doesn’t sound like it will. maybe i’m too much of a pessimist, but that’s how it feels.

pisces can be sullen and withdrawn, he may act cold and distant one day, but affectionate and loving the next. as an aries, it must be confusing for you to deal with his range of emotions, but you have enough aspirations and energy to keep pushing on and trying your best. just don’t put yourself in a position where you’re always waiting for him to be in the right place, or for the right time - waiting for him to come to the realisation that he should be with you.

find someone who appreciates you and, when you go away for five days, misses you unbearably. that’s the kind of guy you deserve.

sameoldsamoldblog asked:

I'm a cancer sun, cancer rising, virgo moon, virgo venus and capricorn mars girl and I'm attracted almost exclusivily to virgo suns, it really puzzles me, because most of them don't share this attraction with me. and I finally I find myself almost all the time in a one-sided love (I tried to rationalize it but I just can't help myself). My relationships were with Virgo suns, they were mostly good but they ended epicly bad. What to do? :(

most past relationships start well and end badly, so don’t look too much into it or get superstitious of virgos. unrequited feelings happens; it sucks, but everyone experiences it at some point in their lives. virgo’s aren’t as emotional as cancers. they have a lot of love, but they’re very picky on who they express it to and if you don’t make the cut, don’t expect them to try to appease you or spare your feelings. they will care to an extent, but if you aren’t “the one” or don’t have any kind of emotional hold on them, they will likely move on and you can’t really blame them. cancers on the other hand can grow easily attached to people; while they disguise their extreme emotions by giving off a certain persona, the more time they spend with a person the more affectionate and sentimental they become, so it’s a lot harder for them to let go. perhaps you should just take some time to figure out what you want, what kind of person you want to be with and then find that person.

Anonymous asked:

I'm a scorpio and I love Libra's there so funny I would date one if I had the chance but would I get along with him later on in life

scorpios and libras have an understanding of each other. they’re right next to each other on the wheel, so it makes sense for there to be an attraction between the two. both of them are concerned with the state of their relationships and would put the effort in to make it work. when scorpios are in long-term relationships, they can become a little withdrawn when it comes to sex. i know this is strange thing to say, but scorpios are more sexual before or at the beginning of a relationship for many reasons, one of them being a way to draw that partner to them. they have always used sex as a tool for connection, and if it doesn’t work out in the end they pick up the remains and move forward. but on the occasion that it does, a scorpio woman especially will become less interested in having sex with her partner, which could really confuse them. the point i’m trying to get at is, if a libra and scorpio were to get into a relationship, there is a good chance of infidelity (libra) and disconnection (scorpio.) but of course, this not set in stone and there are so many other things that go into it. either way, if there is a libra that you like or are in a relationship with, then go for it. no one - not even the stars - can tell you how it will work out.

Anonymous asked:

So recently I've been noticing this taurus (I'm capricorn)that I've always kinda of had a thing for and he's been doing little things like he will come sit next to me nd my friends at lunch and jst sit next me and eat nd the last time I was talking about how bad the day has been nd he said "really? You look all happy and lovable" and I said wat was that? And he said nothing and smiled . I just keep catching him watching nd smiling and I'm not sure if he likes me or if he's like that. Ur opinion?

it certainly seems that he has an attraction towards you and is trying to express it with these small gestures. as a capricorn, you may have insecurities in the field of love and this may cause you doubt him, but he does seem to like you. taurus men are friendly and on a whole, kind men, even if they do not express it. he is clearly trying to make an effort with you, whether this is for friendship or for something more, i can’t tell you. but the important thing is, do you like him? and if so, his little advances should be encouraging for you to take a step forward, see how things go. it might not work it out, but it very well could and i believe that when you have an opportunity like this, you should take it. life is too fucking short. i hope this helps.

Aquarius tend to be quiet but, with a little nudge, can reveal to be the most refreshingly interesting people.

The signs as Friedrich Nietzsche quotes

astropelican:

AriesI know of no better life purpose than to perish in attempting the great and the impossible.

TaurusThat which does not kill us makes us stronger.

GeminiIt is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.

CancerThere is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.

LeoYou must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.

VirgoThere are two different types of people in the world, those who want to know, and those who want to believe.

LibraWithout music, life would be a mistake. 

ScorpioI’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you.

SagittariusWe should consider every day lost on which we have not danced at least once.

CapricornWhoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you.

AquariusAnd those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music.

PiscesSometimes people don’t want to hear the truth because they don’t want their illusions destroyed.

audreyhornesdance asked:

Would you say that fire/water attraction is common? Also, is it common for fire signs to feel manipulated by water signs?

yeah, i believe these elements do attract each other in astrology. they follow emotions and intuition, things you can’t always articulate, and this can bring them closer together. water signs can be manipulative when there is a benefit to them in doing it, but not all are.

they definitely are equipped with the skills, but it doesn’t mean they are as a rule or - if they are manipulative - they’re not always doing it maliciously. it can be that because they’re secretive and don’t express themselves as openly as fire signs do, the fire signs may feel that their water sign is manipulating them. 

Anonymous asked:

Hey! I was wondering if you could you please try and explain why an Aries guy would go from one day treating me like a really good friend, to the next acting like I don't exist? Some days he is so distant that I can't even talk to him or even get him to look at me... We did only recently become friends and we're not super close, but I just don't understand the drastic changes! Thanks in advance - I'm a scorpio girl btw!

well it doesn’t sound like you’re looking for a relationship with him, maybe he sensed that. aries’ are romantic at heart, but he can be trying to play games to get your attention. in terms of astrology, aries’ are quite impulsive and behave irrationally at times. they can also be unaware of their affect on others.